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November 15, 2017

Ladies take control of situations for success - power to your decisions..!!


Going back to the childhood days, do you remember being in control of everything you owned? Whether your bedroom, your clothes, your toys and more, just everything was just yours and it was your decision whether you share something with others or not. You accomplished goals or strategised ways out of innocence for the things you desired, manipulating things and loved ones as per your wishes. Would you be happy if something went against your wish? Basically the factor to control our lives and situations was inculcated into us since our early days, only after dwelling with the society did some of us lose the control spark within. Ofcourse some of us have the control streak within and others crave for it, it is definitely important for us to be in control of our emotions, thoughts, wishes, desires and even situations.

Every single person around the world has a unique set of goals, values, inspirations and beliefs that make us individuals carrying different perspectives and roles in life. Progressing with life, these are important elements slightly altering the core of our existence and making us adjust to situations in a manner that allows us to gain knowledge and patience from the new experiences and situations that we endure.

Life is a roller-coaster and at times it might drift peacefully and swiftly like the glistening waters or make you want to swim across the shore and save yourself from the ferocious struggles that life offer. It is crucial to have control over anger nd not lose your temper when things go wrong, similarly ensure the fact that when things go in the right direction, you dont let success get to your head and hamper things in the future for you.

No, this is definitely not about the control over needs, it holds a deeper meaning to it, it is basically the sense of control on themselves – when a person is in control of their senses, he is in control of every situation. In persuasion to this, sense of control ia probbly the deepest need a person requires and be comfortable with it. Unless we have control over situations and ourselves, there is a deep tension and discomfort to acquie the need of control and get ourselves and situations soughted.

Success follows once you are in control of every sitauation – every sitaution or action does not require a reaction – this holds  deep meaning to it.

Our world perceives men to be in control of things whereas women to be controlled; although our history proves that women are the strongest of all. They hold a deeper sense of control on themselves handling every situation with the required patience. The women in this era are flourishing as independent individuals and making the world bow to them. Gone are the days, when women were bound to homes, the women of today are creating their own history.

Apart from the men, it is crucial for the women to think beyond boundaries and not be influenced or forced by third person’s thought process and decisions. A woman has the rights to take the smallest decisions based on her wishes and desires. The ability to be independent has long been suppressed in our country, whereas it is important to hold the zeal to survive on your own terms to be independent and control situations. It is fundamentally important to hold yourself tight to achieve success on your own terms.

At the end of the day, it is exceedingly important to be self-sustained and handle things on your own – securing your life and not letting it be influenced by someone else. It is about who you are, what you believe in, nd what you want to be.


All the ladies out there, trust yourselves and take control of your own life – the most empowering thing to change your life quotient from “Happimess” to “Happiness”. Make your own decisions, your choices, listen to your inner voice and not berate the opinions of others.