No matter how positive inspirations I try to give my fellow
associates or friends, I also fall prey to negative thinking and thinking bad about
myself or life. It is a truth that we can’t berate ourselves for a better tomorrow
or a better version of ourselves. Yes, I know this, but we all our humans, with
feelings and emotions attached or hidden deep inside me. It is a normal thing
to go through some sulking or negativity when we face challenges in life. I finally
decided that I should be rude to myself at times and tell myself where I was
wrong in my thoughts. I definitely start blaming myself or punish myself for
things I think were wrong on my part, which might not even be my mistake..
I’m sure we all can relate to this, since we all have had
enough problems in life and have put ourselves in the self-doubt process. At times
I feel dull, lazy and just not wanting to meet the people I once couldn't stay
without, making weird excuses or keeping myself so busy that I could be left
aloof, which gradually made me lose those people in life, when the realization
of depression dawned. Depression is not always the typical mental illness that I
am talking about here, it’s the mere frustration level or the unsatisfied
imagery we have in our lives while trying to either turn our dreams into
realities or making some not so special relationship work. Whenever I think
about those things, it makes me cringe inside and scream out loud. And, yesss..
I think this is what I did, and it made me feel light, less burdened. There were people who tried to push me down, demotivate me,
but I took it as a source of pushing myself forward to show it to them that no
matter what, I won’t stop soaring. Putting here all this is because moving on
is not easy but definitely not impossible.
Just when you feel like giving up, remember, you never
started so that you would give up, you have definitely come a long way from
where you were, and everything that happens in life has a reason to it. Maybe something
didn't work out because it was not meant to. I don’t believe strongly in
destiny or its effects much, but I believe that we face things because it had
to change something in us, which was lacking and makes us a better person.
So when you feel like giving up, put yourself together and
try harder, be determined, push yourself forward and make the journey
worthwhile. Giving up is never the solution, life is too short to live being
unhappy. Smile, laugh, jump around, and do the things you love,
because that’s the only way to live life to the fullest and not fall prey to
negativity or bad influences. If it does not work for you, leave it behind and
move on. There are better out there.
YOUR ARE GOING TO WANT TO GIVE UP
DON’T
