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December 16, 2013

Lessons for Good or Bad??



Battles of the heart and mind are the toughest fights, and many of them continue to haunt the soul for a long time after they're over. We don't live to ourselves in this world. We all make an impact whether for good or for bad. We are all watched. We are all observed. We are all examples for others in lessons for good or for bad. Probably the worst part of being in a problem is the responses from people not dealing with the same situations. There are times we feel like screaming with anger and frustration at top of our voice, or just run away from everything and hide. People tell others to just smile or be diplomatic with things. But does that really solve all problems? Here, I differ with the notion people carry. 

As already said, the decisions of the heart and mind are by far the most difficult, people at times just need to stop taking outside advices over things, coz in the end it further increases their dilemma and not really cure the whole problem. People seem to be too keen on knowing the others personal things, and not do a thing about them. Probably the other person just does not need the fixing being provided to them, what might be needed is some time alone and relaxation for a free mind and soul. 

At times, just having someone who would hold the other persons hand, trust them and reassure them, they would develop the strength to fight off the negative monster haunting them. Even I tell people all the time that they would be ok in the end of the situation. Trying to show the silver lining out there, which I myself might not be seeing for them, but still like any other human, I would try giving my piece of advice to the other, without realising it might be of no use. And I used to say it superfluously; just because it was something to say. But I found those words can be the most meaningful things people say. And then at times, maybe the most sarcastic comment too. 

Maybe its easy to pretend for a while that the situation never arose, or we never existed for the other person, be it vice-versa too with us nt existing for the other person, but what about the flashes of memories or the images crossing the mind every now and then. Is it easy to erase them too?? Or is it easy to remove each of the belonging present in that very moment for a monotonous motion of time in our lives. What should we do about them, burn them down too with the burning desire to get out of the mess?? Or put them in a dark corner of a closet unless it is pondered over with what should be done with them? 

The major dilemma of life as it is always quoted “whether to stay or move on” still remains an unsolved problem. There are situations and conditions which make us go nuts trying to walk out and all the more crazy trying to deal with it. What to do then? Those things that we want to do, that we desire to do, that would give great pleasure, we shouldn't do because they are bad for us and will make us unhappy in the end.. and those things that we don't want to do, don't enjoy doing, we should do because they are good for us and will make us happy in the end.. or is it only for the society we try doing things that don’t make us happy? 



We don't live to ourselves in this world. 
We all make an impact --- 
for good or for bad. 
We are all watched. We are all observed. 
We are all examples for others --- 
lessons for good or for bad.