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September 24, 2013

Life has its ways..!!

In life we wish to have a number of things..loads of wishes and happines, but we never know what life has to offer us. We happen to create a niche and persona for ourselves which we would never want to break or change, alas under certain circumstances we have to break it and try adjusting to different atmospheres too.. As kids we just know how to enjoy small little things but as we turn into youngsters, we happen to start taking things in a different manner and get offended by the same things we loved as kids.. We create our own environment and dislike everything that goes against it.. Life is wierd..as a teenage even i had a different notion to life than i have today..leave being a teenager,even 2yrs back things were different for me..always dreaming of a fruitful happy life..which i guess just turned into a notion and nothing else..as i started realising how things have to be tackled facing the challenge of going ahead with what i have today whether or not its what i wanted..Thats how life goes on i guess.. Everybody loses hopes and comes to the point of breaking down..m no suoer human so even i did and still fo at times.. My luck favoured that i had a few ryt ppl in my life who taught me and made me go ahead with things..
As always I fail to understand how people happen to take other people to be wrong over a petite issue..how they fail to realise the importance of those people in our lives.. or how people take others for granted.. maybe they dont realise what the other is trying to do for them or what they face..instead they r just happy giving their view points over someone else widout seeing their own faults and when yhey themselves do the same things.. I know this is all very common and happens in evryones life but probably I realised al this too late..
Between all our tensions and problems, i can just recall a quote i read somewhere..''If 1 person makes u cry, there are 3others who would do anything to make u smile..and that smile would last longer than the tears''..
Who in this small world has time for someone elses tears or probs.. Evry1 has smthing or the other to cope up with and everyone wants to have someone around them who instead of cribbing, smiles laughs and enjoys time with them.. i guess that is what friends and family are for..to tell us they are always there with us and to lift us when we fall.. In times of trouble we understand the value of relations and will know whos actualy there with us..
For all my friends and relatives..all i would want to say is..thank you for everything and for making me what i am today..i have made mistakes and even come to thr brink of falling like every other person..but had it not been for you all to get me back..i wouldnt have been smiling today..
I know i dont have the answers to all the questions of life..bt i can atleast try being myself and being happy about things.. Recently someone taught me that maybe we have nothing to smile about today, but everyone definitely has something to laugh bout in the past.. So lets just try leaving our problems behind and remember those moments and make ourselves smile and laugh reminiscing those special moments we carry as memories with us..