Lessons for Good or Bad??

Battles of the heart and mind are the toughest fights, and many of them continue to haunt the soul for a long time after they're over. We don't live to ourselves in this world. We all make an impact whether for good or for bad. We are all watched. We are all observed. We are all examples for others in lessons for good or for bad. Probably the worst part of being in a problem is the responses from people not dealing with the same situations. There are times we feel like screaming with anger and frustration at top of our voice, or just run away from everything and hide. People tell others to just smile or be diplomatic with things. But does that really solve all problems? Here, I differ with the notion people carry. 

As already said, the decisions of the heart and mind are by far the most difficult, people at times just need to stop taking outside advices over things, coz in the end it further increases their dilemma and not really cure the whole problem. People seem to be too keen on knowing the others personal things, and not do a thing about them. Probably the other person just does not need the fixing being provided to them, what might be needed is some time alone and relaxation for a free mind and soul. 

At times, just having someone who would hold the other persons hand, trust them and reassure them, they would develop the strength to fight off the negative monster haunting them. Even I tell people all the time that they would be ok in the end of the situation. Trying to show the silver lining out there, which I myself might not be seeing for them, but still like any other human, I would try giving my piece of advice to the other, without realising it might be of no use. And I used to say it superfluously; just because it was something to say. But I found those words can be the most meaningful things people say. And then at times, maybe the most sarcastic comment too. 

Maybe its easy to pretend for a while that the situation never arose, or we never existed for the other person, be it vice-versa too with us nt existing for the other person, but what about the flashes of memories or the images crossing the mind every now and then. Is it easy to erase them too?? Or is it easy to remove each of the belonging present in that very moment for a monotonous motion of time in our lives. What should we do about them, burn them down too with the burning desire to get out of the mess?? Or put them in a dark corner of a closet unless it is pondered over with what should be done with them? 

The major dilemma of life as it is always quoted “whether to stay or move on” still remains an unsolved problem. There are situations and conditions which make us go nuts trying to walk out and all the more crazy trying to deal with it. What to do then? Those things that we want to do, that we desire to do, that would give great pleasure, we shouldn't do because they are bad for us and will make us unhappy in the end.. and those things that we don't want to do, don't enjoy doing, we should do because they are good for us and will make us happy in the end.. or is it only for the society we try doing things that don’t make us happy? 

We don't live to ourselves in this world. 

We all make an impact --- 

for good or for bad. 

We are all watched. We are all observed. 

We are all examples for others --- 

lessons for good or for bad. 

Life has its ways..!!

In life we wish to have a number of things..loads of wishes and happines, but we never know what life has to offer us. We happen to create a niche and persona for ourselves which we would never want to break or change, alas under certain circumstances we have to break it and try adjusting to different atmospheres too.. As kids we just know how to enjoy small little things but as we turn into youngsters, we happen to start taking things in a different manner and get offended by the same things we loved as kids.. We create our own environment and dislike everything that goes against it.. Life is wierd..as a teenage even i had a different notion to life than i have today..leave being a teenager,even 2yrs back things were different for me..always dreaming of a fruitful happy life..which i guess just turned into a notion and nothing else..as i started realising how things have to be tackled facing the challenge of going ahead with what i have today whether or not its what i wanted..Thats how life goes on i guess.. Everybody loses hopes and comes to the point of breaking down..m no suoer human so even i did and still fo at times.. My luck favoured that i had a few ryt ppl in my life who taught me and made me go ahead with things..

As always I fail to understand how people happen to take other people to be wrong over a petite issue..how they fail to realise the importance of those people in our lives.. or how people take others for granted.. maybe they dont realise what the other is trying to do for them or what they face..instead they r just happy giving their view points over someone else widout seeing their own faults and when yhey themselves do the same things.. I know this is all very common and happens in evryones life but probably I realised al this too late..

Between all our tensions and problems, i can just recall a quote i read somewhere..''If 1 person makes u cry, there are 3others who would do anything to make u smile..and that smile would last longer than the tears''..

Who in this small world has time for someone elses tears or probs.. Evry1 has smthing or the other to cope up with and everyone wants to have someone around them who instead of cribbing, smiles laughs and enjoys time with them.. i guess that is what friends and family are for..to tell us they are always there with us and to lift us when we fall.. In times of trouble we understand the value of relations and will know whos actualy there with us..

For all my friends and relatives..all i would want to say is..thank you for everything and for making me what i am today..i have made mistakes and even come to thr brink of falling like every other person..but had it not been for you all to get me back..i wouldnt have been smiling today..

I know i dont have the answers to all the questions of life..bt i can atleast try being myself and being happy about things.. Recently someone taught me that maybe we have nothing to smile about today, but everyone definitely has something to laugh bout in the past.. So lets just try leaving our problems behind and remember those moments and make ourselves smile and laugh reminiscing those special moments we carry as memories with us..